Comments on: Sister, sister http://wolfangel.calltherain.net/archives/2007/02/21/sister-sister/ this is a wolf angel & it eats the people it's supposed to help. A wolf angel is not a good angel to have looking out for you. Mon, 01 Dec 2008 19:16:57 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.2 By: betty http://wolfangel.calltherain.net/archives/2007/02/21/sister-sister/#comment-185270 betty Thu, 22 Feb 2007 04:20:15 +0000 http://wolfangel.calltherain.net/archives/2007/02/21/sister-sister/#comment-185270 i can only imagine how hard it must be to have such a difficult relationship with a family member. and to have that difficulty stem from their cruelty makes it even worse. i'm sorry you have to deal wit this. i can only imagine how hard it must be to have such a difficult relationship with a family member. and to have that difficulty stem from their cruelty makes it even worse. i’m sorry you have to deal wit this.

]]> By: Madeleine http://wolfangel.calltherain.net/archives/2007/02/21/sister-sister/#comment-185517 Madeleine Thu, 22 Feb 2007 15:32:59 +0000 http://wolfangel.calltherain.net/archives/2007/02/21/sister-sister/#comment-185517 Your patience or restraint, or bravery even, are really impressive. Pick whatever word you like best to describe it because it sounds really, really difficult. I think you are right that you don't have any good choices, except to keep up the current response as long as you possibly can, and whine to us if it keeps you from snapping at her. I'm sorry this is so hard. Your patience or restraint, or bravery even, are really impressive. Pick whatever word you like best to describe it because it sounds really, really difficult. I think you are right that you don’t have any good choices, except to keep up the current response as long as you possibly can, and whine to us if it keeps you from snapping at her.

I’m sorry this is so hard.

]]> By: wolfa http://wolfangel.calltherain.net/archives/2007/02/21/sister-sister/#comment-185568 wolfa Thu, 22 Feb 2007 17:52:24 +0000 http://wolfangel.calltherain.net/archives/2007/02/21/sister-sister/#comment-185568 There are easier and harder relationships around, but certainly this is one of the less pleasant ones. I find it hard, also, because I don't know how much of this is just her psychological problems and unfixable, how much of this I can blame her for not even trying to fix. Not succeeding, just trying. I think when I feel the need to actually respond instead of pretending I don't hear her, I will say, "Yes, you last saw me [whenever]". I have told her I come over to spend time with her; she does not find this amusing. The whole thing is confusing. I just want to stick around being proud of how much I have not blown up at her, but I think this pride might soon vanish, cause I'm running low on patience. There are easier and harder relationships around, but certainly this is one of the less pleasant ones. I find it hard, also, because I don’t know how much of this is just her psychological problems and unfixable, how much of this I can blame her for not even trying to fix. Not succeeding, just trying.

I think when I feel the need to actually respond instead of pretending I don’t hear her, I will say, “Yes, you last saw me [whenever]”. I have told her I come over to spend time with her; she does not find this amusing.

The whole thing is confusing. I just want to stick around being proud of how much I have not blown up at her, but I think this pride might soon vanish, cause I’m running low on patience.

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