Gone baby
So my cat seems to be gone for good. I am very upset. Distraught would be a good word for it.
Appropriate responses to this post are all along the lines of “I’m very sorry”; inappropriate ones include “I’m sure she’ll come back”, “why didn’t you do [whatever]”, “have you considered trying [something else]”, “she’s only a cat”, and anything else that suggests that I am too upset, a bad person, a stupid person, or anything that suggests that I should be hopeful. (I admit: part of me is hoping that this active “lost cat” post is the magic thing that makes her return. But I also know that it won’t happen and she’s never coming back.)
December 10th, 2007 at 1:28 am
Oh, no! I’m so sorry!!
December 10th, 2007 at 1:52 am
I’m so sorry :( I don’t think there is such a thing as being “too upset” about something like this. I would be a mess.
*hugs*
December 10th, 2007 at 8:06 am
I’m so very sorry, wolfa. I could tell you adored your cat, so of course you are grieving.
December 10th, 2007 at 9:46 am
:-(
I am going over right now and giving Iz a big hug for you. She was so fortunate to have you… and vice versa, of course, though you knew it more than she did.
December 10th, 2007 at 10:07 am
Oh no :( I am so sorry to hear this. I would also be a total mess.
December 10th, 2007 at 10:54 am
That’s very sad. I’m so sorry for you.
December 10th, 2007 at 11:46 am
I really am very sorry.
December 10th, 2007 at 12:38 pm
Oh, Wolfa, I’m so, so sorry. That’s tragic and terrible and I wish I could do something to make it better.
December 10th, 2007 at 12:44 pm
It absolutely floors me that someone would say “It’s just a cat”. They are the same people who think Michael Vick did nothing wrong.
Hugs to you. I am so sorry about your friend.
December 10th, 2007 at 1:00 pm
I’m so sorry about your kitty. :(
December 10th, 2007 at 1:05 pm
I’m so sorry. I wish I could say something to make it better.
December 10th, 2007 at 1:34 pm
That’s really hard and I wish there were something I could say to make it easier. I’m thinking of you.
December 10th, 2007 at 2:23 pm
Oh, I’m so sorry. That’s horrible. :(
{{{wolfa}}}
December 10th, 2007 at 8:48 pm
I’m so sorry. And I echo the question: Why would anyone say she’s only a cat?
December 10th, 2007 at 9:28 pm
So sorry, Wolfa. And no, she was not just a cat.
December 10th, 2007 at 11:58 pm
I’m so sorry. :( *hugs*
December 11th, 2007 at 12:12 am
I’m really sorry that she’s gone. A cat’s an important part of a home and a heart.
December 12th, 2007 at 12:24 am
I’m very sorry.
December 12th, 2007 at 12:48 pm
Pets are part of the family. Of course you miss her. :(
December 13th, 2007 at 12:04 am
I am so sorry. It’s heartbreaking.